Love on the rocks is a time in a relationship when you begin to question your relationship and it's longevity. Many couples deal with it, but don't talk about it. I believe that wisdom comes from learning from our our mistakes and the mistakes of others.
Love on the rocks happens at any stage in a relationship. No matter how solid your relationship, there will be at least one time when you pose the "what if" question and being to allow your mind to wonder about the unknown. It is that unknown that will lead us to cave into temptation instead of resisting it.
Sometimes the rocks are smooth and cause us little discomfort. Other times the rocks are jagged and feel like a sword is piercing our hearts. That is a pain that I have felt and made me question the status of my own relationship. Were we really strong enough to withstand the storms that came up against us. Needless to say, I am still married and we still live in the same house. We withstood those rocks, but what about future rocks. What do you do, when storms keep coming in your relationship and you or your partner begin to doubt the love that brought you all together.
If you haven't done this before now, I suggest you pray. Here's the key, you must pray together and often. There is nothing like a couple uniting to fight for the love that they once knew and praying together, trusting God together, and praising harder for God to deliver their relationship from the storm that it is in. You will find that when this happens, that after the storm the wisdom that came from it is so valuable and precious that it made the storm with it to go through.
So when your love is on the rocks, do not fret. This may just be the storm to shake up a new, mature love and passion between you all and a help you to develop a stronger relationship with God.